My husband is a great guy! He works hard to help provide for our family, he listen's to my long detailed stories, my hair brained ideas/opinions, he is a positive force in the lives of our kids and he is the best cuddler! It's not unusual for my husband to make a late night run to fill my car up with gas, give a timely back rub, or a great unexpected hug...BUT he’s not Mr. Romantic! I am confidant in his monogamous love for me, and I don't really need any big flashy gifts to have that proven. BUT, the girly girl in me really wants the flowers, candy and dinner scenario once in a while.
I realize that Valentine's day is just once a year and love can be shown at any time...but come on now! It's marked out for a reason, it's the one time a year that all the gifts are all laid out for you, it's a no brainer! Hell, they are even on sale! Ease of purchase, lower cost, happiness all around! Yes, flowers die. But they look so pretty for a few days. And candy is not healthy, but a little treat is nice.
I did get flowers last year. It was 3 roses in a very pretty ceramic pot. I still have them, dried of course. It was a start! He has great potential to be a romantic I tell ya! He has a heart as big as the world and a soft side he doesn't show often. Somehow he got the idea that I didn't like flowers as gifts. Whoa!!!! I happen to LOVE flowers! I just don't like them when given as make up gifts. My ex did that, and I hated it! He could be a total asshole and think a dozen roses would make him more tolerable, I DON'T THINK SO. Flowers for special occasions are fabulous! They lift a lady's spirit and excitement! It makes them feel special to receive such a thoughtful gift. Especially when the color is carefully chosen. Sometimes you have to look beyond red guys!
OK, I think I am starting to ramble here so I better just sum it up. We don't have to have a gift on Valentine's Day, but it is nice! Flowers on occasion are sweet, candy is always good. Jewelry can be great too, and gives you a chance to put a lot of thought into it! This however is not a great idea, very heartfelt and sweet, but not ideal...Just saying! Happy Valentine's Day everyone!